Words of Wisdom and a Surprise :)

What is the best advice you have ever received? What advice do you sorely regret not taking? In this swap you will write a letter and introduce yourself and then offer the best advice you have ever received. Your best advice can fall into any category: relationships, finance, education, DIY, parenting, medical/health, dating, career, religious, fashion, cooking, etc...Next, read your partners profile and include a surprise (sender's choice) no more than $5 in value. This swap is open to all. Newbies need to prove themselves, and those with 1's and 3's desire a second chance...so here it is! One partner assigned. Please don't let your partner down. She/He is counting on your Words of Wisdom! :)